Basically, the movie talks about how the modern hospital birth is a bad thing. It points out that it is in a hospital's best interest to get the baby out as quickly as possible, and with that goal in mind they make decisions that are not the right ones for the mother. Most significantly they tend to rush into intervention options such as drugs and induction, both of which increase the chances of a Caesarean-section. A C-section is quick, easy and easily billable to the insurance companies. One interviewee in the movie noted that C-section rates spiked at 4pm and 10pm, and hypothesized that this was due to doctors either wanting to get home for dinner or for bed.
We agree with all of this, and my friend Eric, who has two kids, pointed out a very clear cycle that mothers must try to avoid in a hospital delivery:
- Labour is not progressing "fast" enough e.g. cheaply enough for the hospital
- Doctor prescribes pitocin (a drug that induces labour contractions)
- Pitocin creates unusually strong contractions
- Strong contractions require pain management
- Pain management (epidural) slows down labour
- More pitocin required
- More drugs, more pitocin, stronger contractions all lead to putting the baby in distress
- C-section
However, where the movie's opinion and ours diverge is with the conclusion that the only "real" option is a home birth. Taking Eric's advice and the advice of birthing professionals, it seems that the way around this is to not go to the hospital until you're absolutely ready. This means one full hour of strong contractions, five minutes apart. Then you call the doc. Only then do you go in. By that time, you're well on the way before the hospital timer even starts ticking.
Home birth is simply not what we want. We can weigh the possibility of a "normal" birth going into the progression above in a hospital, versus a home birth going wrong to the point of needing immediate emergency medical attention, and it's clear that the downsides of one (a birth that yields a healthy baby and mother, but does so in an unideal way) far outweigh the other (complete maternal haemmorhage in less than five minutes). Nope, we'll stick with the hospital, but we'll try to be disciplined about when we go in and how we stand up for ourselves against intervention when we get there.
You would think that a movie that primarily deals with the well-being of women and their babies would be lauded by feminist commentators, but that has certainly not been the case. Check out this article from Salon.com's Rebecca Traister, who regularly writes on women's issues. She takes major issue with how the movie portrays a "best" way to deliver, somehow denigrating any birth that doesn't fit that mould. Traister points to a terrific New York Times article that profiles the midwife most prominently featured in the movie, expressing the same concerns about the home birth approach that we have. Traister asks why giving birth should be "a contest about who feels better about themselves or more at one with their bodies", and suggests "not buying into the idea that birthing choices become your earliest parenting gold star or your scarlet letters of birthing shame." Her conclusion is that "all the bellowing [presumably pointing to this movie as an example of such bellowing] on either side only work to make women feel underqualified for motherhood right from the start." That certainly sounds like the words of a feminist, and I'll be the first to agree with her.
I have wanted to see this film for a while. interesting to read your thoughts on it. i think home births are great but i would not want one either! sounds like you guys are going to be v well-prepared!
ReplyDeleteI would say that I had a similar situation with being induced only to have a c-section, which I felt was more about their agenda then mine...I want a "do over" but that is not an option. I do think a hospital option is safer due to complications that can arise, but in retrospect I would have hired a midwife to talk with and help me make better decisions. A dula is a good idea too. I know of one if you are interested in talking with her. She had both of her babies at home. Lisa
ReplyDeleteI completely agree that there are way too many c-sections done unnecessarily, and your idea of not going to the hospital until things are really advanced is a good way of trying to control the situation. Neil can also be the voice of reason for you, if you feel things going out of control.
ReplyDeleteBoy, this is a tough issue, Kristin. I've had 4 babies, all vaginally, all with epidurals. I had pitocin with two of them, which was ok with me, as my labors tend to be LONG and SLOW. While laboring long and slow may be the way my body was made, it also leads to an emotionally and physically exhausted mommy, which isn't good for anyone either.
ReplyDeleteI attempted to wait as long as possible before going to the hospital with Thing 1. When the contractions brought me to my knees, I figured it was time to head in. I was only at a 5. My point is that labor pain is different for every woman, as is every woman's pain threshold. I am a wimp about pain, so I chose to manage it with epidurals. It worked for me. I cannot say what will work for you, though - only you, your body, your hubby and your baby know that.
I also found that the most important people at the hospital were NOT the doctors. The Labor and Delivery nurses call most of the shots and were much more interested in our plans and concerns than the doctors were. The doctors pretty much showed up for the last 20 minutes and delivered the baby.
I realize that I could go on and on and you're probably thinking "Enough already!" ;-) But now that you know some of the details of my baby-birthing history, I'd be happy to chat further if you so desire.
I'm just thrilled for you as you embark on the most incredible roller coaster ride of your life! And I love seeing your enthusiasm and joy at the prospect. God bless, friend.
I'd recommend investing in a doula to help you through your labor. I had one for both of my births and it helped me immensely. I had planned a natural birth, to the point that I didn't look at what the other options were. I knew I didn't want to go there and excluded it from my mind. Then my water broke and my labor never started. I ended up being induced after 36 hours. And my son was OP. And I got an epidural. (which actually speeded my labor up A LOT) My doula helped me navigate my choices and negotiate with the doctors from an informed place. Although the birth didn't go as I'd planned, I still felt empowered to make the choices I wanted.
ReplyDeleteMy second birth was far less eventful, but also assisted by a doula.
All I can really say is know all of the options, even if you never plan on using them. It is better to find out about it when you aren't in the midst of labor.